Women write to me all the time wondering how often it’s okay to call, text and email a new man. I think they ask because at an instinctual level, they know whatever they’re doing is probably too much. So here are some guidelines so you will avoid the mistake of scaring a man off by being too needy and clingy.

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Can men and women really ever just be friends, after? winding emotionally backwards? Men first and foremost connect with women, physically and sexually. Women connect emotional and maaaaany other aspects. IF there are any connections or hopes those energy cords are attachments(7 years). Waking up to “giving our power to love, away, to a man not reciprocating or consciously connecting(meeting our needs) is self-destructive. Period. I always ask? Vibrationally, self love and appreciation draws men who respect and care for many aspects of all life. Pouring Light out to the world, rather than sucking/using women for his biology. Selfish use of women is destructive and matched vibrational with a women who is already in self destruction by negative attachment, unhealthy boundaries and lacking her own self love. It is important to use your God given GPS..EMOTIONS… to tell where you are vibrating!! If your are in lower energies, self loathing, frustration, regrets or desperation??? He matches you in use and abuse… even if only to “talk” about his other conquests? WAKE UP!! There are no victims!! You are using him, he is using you…. not recommended. Really, when I feel good about myself??? Choose loving and healthy choices! I bless the past, have faith in my future and live loving in the NOW. Therefore, I do NOT even in think about the “Ex-hole” lol NOT a vibrational match, at all!

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When you’re first getting to know a man, before you have established clearly (via a face-to-face conversation) that you are a couple, will not date anyone else and will not have sex with anyone else, your job is to receive and his is to give. You receive his pursuit of you, you receive his phone calls, his texts messages, emails, request to take you out on dates. His is to give to you attention, phone calls, texts, emails and requests to take you on dates.

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You do not initiate phone calls, texts, emails at this stage. You WAIT to respond to him. You return his calls, respond to texts and emails, and say yes or not to his requests for dates. The moment you begin to make the calls, text him, send emails, or ask him to go on a date, you have begun to pursue him, which feels to him that you are taking over his job as the man. Because you are. Most men do not like this and will walk away from this kind of woman. To them it feels like you are being clingy and needy.

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This really helped me!! My ex and I had relationship for 5 years. (My very bad!!) and now he’s single and left me for another. Now after three months, he wants me to see his boat and his intentions are just as friends! I now realize I still have feelings for him and my expectations of this get together would probably break my heart. I don’t know what to do, because I still want to be friends with him. He doesn’t usually initiate contact, it usually is me. I could use your advice on this one. I am also working on making my marriage better, as he is still involved with his relationship. It’s just very hard. What is wrong with me? I asked if he was looking to rekindle our relationship and he said “no”, just wants to be friends.

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